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"If you want to know more about Borderline Personality Disorder, as a borderline, or non borderline, I totally recommend that you buy A.J. Mahari's 3 Core Wound of Abandonment Ebooks. I have searched all over the web, read everything I could, including lots of other books and nothing was even close to as helpful to me as A.J.'s insightful explanation of abandonment in BPD. Finally, I understand.Thank you A.J. for the incredible gift of the insight you share that you learned through your own life experience."

-- Katy Gilchrist, Alberta, Canada

"I am in a relationship with a borderline. I was at my wits end and in so much pain. I was so confused. Then I purchased and read A.J. Mahari's 3 Ebooks for Non Borderlines and I found her amazing first-hand knowledge and insight life-changing and so emotionally freeing. I feel like I owe my emotional peace and freedom to you A.J., thanks so much for all you do and all you share to help others."

-- Mike Miller, Chicago, U.S.A.

"A.J.'s Ebook and Audio Program for Non Borderlines - The Dilemma on The Other Side of BPD was a life-saver for me. From both the ebook and the audio program I learned so much about BPD that I still needed to understand so that I could make sense out of the chaos and turmoil of a relationship I was in and the pain of it all. This information helped me come to terms with the reality that love wasn't really what I thought it was. Thanks so much A.J.!"

-- Cindy Mcphail, London, England

Thought Changing Affirmations - A 5 Volume Set

Thought Changing Affirmations - A 5 Volume Set

Author, Life Coach, BPD/Mental Health and Self Improvement Coach, A.J. Mahari's 5 Volume set of Thought Changing Positive Affirmation Handbooks that are designed to give you an affirmation per day or week, as you choose, to make into a mantra to help you change various ...

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$45.99

Thought Changing Affirmations Handbooks - A 5 Volume Set

Thought Changing Affirmations Handbooks - A 5 Volume Set

Author, Life Coach, BPD/Mental Health and Self Improvement Coach, A.J. Mahari's 5 Volume set of Thought Changing Positive Affirmation Handbooks that are designed to give you an affirmation per day or week, as you choose, to make into a mantra to help you change various ...

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$45.99

Thought Changing Affirmations Handbooks 5 Volume Set

Thought Changing Affirmations Handbooks 5 Volume Set

Author, Life Coach, BPD/Mental Health and Self Improvement Coach, A.J. Mahari's 5 Volume set of Thought Changing Positive Affirmation Handbooks that are designed to give you an affirmation per day or week, as you choose, to make into a mantra to help you change various ...

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$45.99

Tough Love and BPD Video - Loved ones of BPD Part 1

Tough Love and BPD Video - Loved ones of BPD Part 1

A.J. Mahari on Video about Tough Love and BPD In a two hour talk given to family members and loved ones of those with Borderline Personality Disorder, author, speaker, life coach and strategist, A.J. Mahari talks about tough love. Mahari widens the perspective on what tough ...

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$9.99

Tough Love and BPD Video - Loved ones of BPD Part 2

Tough Love and BPD Video - Loved ones of BPD Part 2

Tough Love and BPD - Loved ones of BPD Part 2 of 2 In part two of her Video Lecture on Tough Love for loved ones of those with Borderline Personality Disorder, A.J. Mahari talksa about how and when tough love can be applied in coping with someone with BPD in your life. ...

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$9.99

Toxic Relationship - 1 - 60 Minute Coaching Session

Toxic Relationship - 1 - 60 Minute Coaching Session

Price: $80.00 1 - 60 minute phone coaching session Mental Health and Life Coach A.J. Mahari, who has has her own past toxic relationship experiences and who knows the journey of that recovery, offers this very affordable rate to those who are in or have had a toxic relationship ...

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$80.00

Toxic Relationship Couple's Coaching

Toxic Relationship Couple's Coaching

1 - 2 hour Joint (Couple's) Toxic Relationship Coaching Session Toxic relationships are increasing in our world today. There are many different reasons for this. At the core of this reality of toxic relationships, sadly, and painfully, becoming more ...

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$160.00

Toxic Relationships - Difficult Toxic and/or Abusive People

Toxic Relationships - Difficult Toxic and/or Abusive People

Coping with Difficult Toxic and/or Abusive People Generally and During the Holidays - Toxic Relationships Holidays tend to bring out the worst in difficult, toxic and/or abusive people. Holidays tend to challenge those who are in relationships, friendships, or who have family ...

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Understanding BPD 1 - The Lost Self - The Impact of the core wound of abandonment Ebook

Understanding BPD 1 - The Lost Self - The Impact of the core wound of abandonment Ebook

Understanding Borderline Personality Disorder - The Lost Self - The Impact of The Core Wound of Abandonment Book features a thorough examination and explanation geared toward helping you understand Borderline Personality Disorder and gain insight into and awareness of the impact ...

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$18.99

Unresolved Abandonment

Unresolved Abandonment

Abandonment Negatively Impacts Relating and Relationships - Unresolved abandonment causes untold emotional and psychological suffering. Abandonment is at the core of what drives toxic relationships whether one has a mental illness or not. What you attach to without conscious ...

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Verbal Abuse - The Effects, The Danger and The Roots

Verbal Abuse - The Effects, The Danger and The Roots

Verbal Abuse - The Roots, The Effects, and The Danger Price: $20.99 Verbal Abuse - The Roots, The Effects, and The Danger In this ebook, Verbal Abuse - The Roots, The Effects, and the Danger, A.J. Mahari provides a revealing and ...

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Verbal Abuse - The Roots, The Danger and the Effects

Verbal Abuse - The Roots, The Danger and the Effects

Verbal Abuse - The Roots, The Effects, and The Danger In this ebook, Verbal Abuse - The Roots, The Effects, and the Danger, A.J. Mahari provides a revealing and informative exploration of the scope and reality of verbal abuse and its impact on ...

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Verbal Abuse - The Roots, The Effects, and The Danger

Verbal Abuse - The Roots, The Effects, and The Danger

Verbal Abuse - The Roots, The Effects, and The Danger In this ebook, Verbal Abuse - The Roots, The Effects, and the Danger, A.J. Mahari provides a revealing and informative exploration of the scope and reality of verbal abuse and its impact on those who are victims of it. In ...

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Verbal Abuse and Your Mental Health - The Roots, The Effects, and The Danger

Verbal Abuse and Your Mental Health  - The Roots, The Effects, and The Danger

Price: $14.99 Verbal Abuse and Your Mental Health - The Roots, The Effects, and The Danger Do you think that Verbal Abuse isn't all that bad? Do you think that Verbal Abuse isn't wounding? Do you think that Verbal Abuse is okay because the person abusing you isn't ...

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EBook

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What Loved Ones Need To Know About The Borderline False Self and Their Own Feelings of Guilt

What Loved Ones Need To Know About The Borderline False Self and Their Own Feelings of Guilt

Loved ones, especially partners, of those with BPD, need to know more and understand more about the false self in Borderline Personality Disorder and how it can leave you feeling empathy, sorry for, and/or guilty about your reactions or feelings to the person in your life with ...

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Quotes From A.J. Mahari


"If you have Borderline Personality Disorder you have met your one true enemy -- yourself -- namely, your false self to be much more specific. This false self becomes the shadow self experienced by those with BPD. The more you deny the Shadow Self, the more likely it is that you will be blind to your own faults and find those faults in others. Denying the false self, the shadow self, in BPD, only perpetuates your pain and suffering."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "The Shadows and Echoes of Self - The False in BPD"

"The central dilemma of the non borderline presents you with a quandary that in and through its predicament reveals a puzzle that you then feel compelled to solve. The what-to-do conundrum is unearthed. Your pain, the pain of loving someone with BPD compels you to want to help and to want to fix the problem to restore a sense of connectedness that continues to be puzzling, painful, and illusive. Where is love in all of this?"

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "The Dilemma on the Other Side of BPD" - Borderline Love?

"The collective experiences compiling in the very young infant are forming an internal representation of the world. The core wound of abandonment results in the destruction of the emerging authentic self. It destroys the very essence of the developing self. Emotional growth and development are arrested as the result of failure to master early childhood developmental phases."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "The Legacy of Abandonment in BPD"