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"If you want to know more about Borderline Personality Disorder, as a borderline, or non borderline, I totally recommend that you buy A.J. Mahari's 3 Core Wound of Abandonment Ebooks. I have searched all over the web, read everything I could, including lots of other books and nothing was even close to as helpful to me as A.J.'s insightful explanation of abandonment in BPD. Finally, I understand.Thank you A.J. for the incredible gift of the insight you share that you learned through your own life experience."

-- Katy Gilchrist, Alberta, Canada

"A.J., your ebook about Verbal Abuse helped me to realize so much. I needed to know that I was placing myself in danger and that verbal abuse is not something to minimize. I also needed to know that toxic relating isn't love. Thanks so much for writing and making that ebook available."

-- Duke P., Ireland

"I just wanted to let you know, A.J., how helpful your ebooks and audio programs have been to me. Thanks for all the hard work you do and for putting yourself and your own painful experience out there as gifts to those still trying to find their own way."

-- Donald S., U.S.A.

About Coping Tools Skills

A.J. MahariA.J. Mahari has created a new category area - Coping Tools Skills to provide you with Audio and Video information on the topics listed on this page and even more (coming). This content will be focused on giving you tips, tools, and coping skills, in several areas from A.J.'s perspective as a Life Coach, BPD/Mental Health and Self Improvement Coach. Products in this section will be shorter and focused on tips, tools, and skills to cope with Abandonment, Anxiety, Stress, and all categories found by clicking on the Coping Tools Skills menu link.

If you are new to facing these challenges in your life, new to wanting to create positive healthy change, or you've been working on things for a while and want to add to what you have already processed you will find A.J.'s information invaluable on your journey. Much of what you can purchase in this category is closely related to some of the information, techniques, tools, and skills A.J. helps her clients integrate into their daily life, recovery, healing, coping, in as she Coaches clients through the process of change that each one of them is engaged in.

Much of this Coping Tools Skills information on many aspects lacking emotional balance or being in a painful emotional place in your life will give you practical tips, tools, skills, and action steps to take to practice new ways of coping that can be of help to you whether you want to work with A.J. as your Coach or you are in therapy or you may be in need of support but can't afford any Coaching or therapy right now. These materials for some will be about learning to cope right now and for others they will provide you with support and validation to help you help yourself a little more so that you can empower yourself in what might be an "in-the-meantime time" time for you.

If you are struggling with anxiety, stress, codependency, toxic relationships, lack of boundaries, self-care issues, depression, abandonment, unresolved childhood abandonment, not sure who you are or what you want in your life, having difficulty relating to yourself and/or others, if you have BPD or NPD, or BPD/NPD with or without any other co-morbid diagnosis yourself, or because you are a loved one of someone with a mental illness or Pervasive Developmental Disability (PDD) - Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD), Asperger's Syndrome (AS), or a neurological disorder like Tourette Syndrome (TS) you will benefit from learning more about self-acceptance, self-worth, self-esteem, over-all coping tools and so forth. You will also benefit from A.J.'s visualizations and relaxation exercices and other things of this nature that will be available for purchase here very. A.J. Mahari provides in depth information that helps people to help themselves, that empowers people to further empower themselves. A.J. has received lots of feedback from clients, people who purchase her Ebooks and Audio Programs in other categories that what she has to give, and to share, that her expertise is life-changing for so many people. Life-changing information, coping tools and skills, goal-setting ideas and so much more that will also inspire you. You will also be able to purchase some inspirational and motivational affirmations and thoughtful meditative reflections from and by A.J. Mahari as well.


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Please join me on this most sacred journey won't you? I look forward to the opportunity to join you for part of your un-folding journey whether I have the opportunity to work with you as your Coach and supporting you identifying and accomplishing more effective and healthier coping skills, compensatory strategies (AS) (TS) or healing, self improvement, recovery, and your identifying, strategizing and getting into action to achieve your goals and dreams.


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Quotes From A.J. Mahari


"Each one of us is born alone. Born to be the very unique human being that he/she is. Each one of us will die alone. In between, in the natural order of life, there are times when we must be alone due to circumstance or times when we may need to be alone to take care of ourselves and find our own way through troubled and painful seasons. Being alone is not necessarily the reason for feeling the pain of loneliness."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "Loneliness - Its Promise of Transformation"

"Hope for change and recovery in a loved one with BPD often causes non borderlines to compulsively focus on the borderline and try to fix him or her in ways that only increase the pain, suffering, and confusion for the non borderline. When is hope really hope? When is hope false hope? I talk about the different faces and consequences of hope. Hope is often one of the biggest hooks and traps for the non borderline and I explain why."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Audio Program, "The Puzzle and Mystery of Hope on the Other Side of BPD"

"The central dilemma of the non borderline presents you with a quandary that in and through its predicament reveals a puzzle that you then feel compelled to solve. The what-to-do conundrum is unearthed. Your pain, the pain of loving someone with BPD compels you to want to help and to want to fix the problem to restore a sense of connectedness that continues to be puzzling, painful, and illusive. Where is love in all of this?"

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "The Dilemma on the Other Side of BPD" - Borderline Love?