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"I didn't think anyone else could possibly know or understand what I was going through. I also didn't think anyone could be so compassionate and patient with me as A.J. Mahari was as my life coach. She gave me support, information, and tools. Tools that have enabled me to truly find myself and to set and achieve my goals. Thanks so much for everything A.J.! -- Mandy"

-- M., Ontario, Canada

"I would highly recommend A.J. Mahari as life coach especially for those who are non borderline. I worked with A.J. over the course of 6 months as I struggled to end my relationship with my BPD girl friend. A.J. was compassionate, supportive, and so patient with me. I don't think I'd be where I am today without A.J.'s support."

-- Marty Green, Ontario, Canada

"If you want to know more about Borderline Personality Disorder, as a borderline, or non borderline, I totally recommend that you buy A.J. Mahari's 3 Core Wound of Abandonment Ebooks. I have searched all over the web, read everything I could, including lots of other books and nothing was even close to as helpful to me as A.J.'s insightful explanation of abandonment in BPD. Finally, I understand.Thank you A.J. for the incredible gift of the insight you share that you learned through your own life experience."

-- Katy Gilchrist, Alberta, Canada

Loved Ones of BPD - Unhooking From BPD Chaos Part 1

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Are you someone with a loved one, family member, ex or relationship partner with Borderline Personality Disorder?

Are you in pain? Do you feel like you are losing yourself or that you have lost yourself? Are you experiencing an increasing amount of emotional pain? Are you angrier? More stressed? These are but a few of the signs that you are losing yourself to the personality-disordered person in your life and that you need healthy change in your life.

A.J. Mahari talks to non borderlines, the loved ones or family members of those with Borderline Personality Disorder about the reality of the duality of their pain. It can be painful to unhook from someone with BPD who isn't getting treatment or perhaps doesn't even admit there is a problem.

Non borderlines need to learn to focus more on themselves and less on the person with BPD in their lives so that they can re-gain lost balance. So that they can gain perspective on what they are experiencing and what it means to them in their lives. How can you know what the answers are for the situation you find yourself in and/or for the stress you are under if you aren't sure what the questions really are?

Loss hurts. Loss invites us to open up to the questions that you have to learn to live so that you can ready yourself for the finding of answers that you need to help you to heal and to recover from a painful relationship.

Many non borderlines - BPD loved ones stay hooked because they are trying to avoid the pain of loss. Mahari talks about the reality that there is something much more painful than that pain of loss. What is that? Do you need to know more?

A.J. Mahari has been there. She knows your pain. She knows the heartache. She speaks from her own experience. She has healed and recovered from her own relationships with people with BPD in her life. She will give you hope and food for thought as to how you can unhook, why you may need to, and what you can do about the why's and the wherefore's of why what has happened in your experience with the person with BPD has happened, what it means, and what you can do about it.

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Quotes From A.J. Mahari

"What is in the way - is the way. If you have Borderline Personality Disorder it is the fundamental absence of a known self that sits at the very core of your pain, anger, and your rage. It is your rage that stands between your borderline pain and suffering and your recovery. Your lack of a known and defined self is what is in your way."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "Rage And BPD"

"Each one of us is born alone. Born to be the very unique human being that he/she is. Each one of us will die alone. In between, in the natural order of life, there are times when we must be alone due to circumstance or times when we may need to be alone to take care of ourselves and find our own way through troubled and painful seasons. Being alone is not necessarily the reason for feeling the pain of loneliness."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "Loneliness - Its Promise of Transformation"

"Why is it that we allow so much pain and chaos to be a part of how we define love? What is it that we still need to learn so that we can free ourselves from the burden and the pain of investing in rescuing a borderline? What is it that you still need more awareness about? What are the lessons?"

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "Full Circle - Lessons For Non Borderlines"

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