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"I am in a relationship with a borderline. I was at my wits end and in so much pain. I was so confused. Then I purchased and read A.J. Mahari's 3 Ebooks for Non Borderlines and I found her amazing first-hand knowledge and insight life-changing and so emotionally freeing. I feel like I owe my emotional peace and freedom to you A.J., thanks so much for all you do and all you share to help others."

-- Mike Miller, Chicago, U.S.A.

"I would highly recommend A.J. Mahari as life coach especially for those who are non borderline. I worked with A.J. over the course of 6 months as I struggled to end my relationship with my BPD girl friend. A.J. was compassionate, supportive, and so patient with me. I don't think I'd be where I am today without A.J.'s support."

-- Marty Green, Ontario, Canada

"I didn't think anyone else could possibly know or understand what I was going through. I also didn't think anyone could be so compassionate and patient with me as A.J. Mahari was as my life coach. She gave me support, information, and tools. Tools that have enabled me to truly find myself and to set and achieve my goals. Thanks so much for everything A.J.! -- Mandy"

-- M., Ontario, Canada

Recovery From a Relationship - Effective Coping When a Relationship Ends

Recovery From a Relationship  - Effective Coping When a Relationship Ends

Price: $650.00

When you purchase this coaching package you will save $150. If you were to purchase 10 individual sessions the cost would be $800.00

This 10 session coaching packaage with A.J. Mahari, for anyone who is still learning to cope with and recover from a relationship break-up, or anyone who knows that a relationship needs to be ended and is processing and developing an emotional preparedness for leaving a relationship will help you to get  to know yourself better. It will also help you to understand in more aware ways what you have just experienced and what that means going forward in your life.

Relationship recovery coaching with A.J. Mahari will help you to better understand the dynamics of that unfolded in your relationship and at the same time help you to gain increased awareness about the ways that you were investing in relational patterns that were painful and that threaten your sense of self and emotional well-being. A.J. can also help you to identify goals that will provide you with a sense of purpose that will help you embrace your loss and the grief and open you up to what you will benefit from learning more about.

In relationship recovery, coping with the loss and the grief, and learning what you most need to know is key. This is a time to concentrate on yourself and in positive affirming ways that nurture your growth. It is important not to allow your inner-critic to take over and cause you more pain or keep  you stuck in feelings of abandonment, shame, and/or unworthiness. A.J. can help you to let go of the "if-only's" and the "what-if's".

Also at issue and explored with many who purchase this coaching package is the self-defeating choices made in getting involved in a relationship or series of relationships that have a common thread/theme/pattern that have continued to bring painful chaos, stress, and anxiety into your life. Learn why you may be looking for love in all the wrong places.

This coaching package will help you:

  • Learn to observe your inner-critic
  • Gain more awareness about relationship choices - what keeps blocked from the healthy love you really want
  • Clarify your own needs
  • Clarify your expectations
  • Clarify your relationship needs
  • Cope effectively with the loss and grief of a relationship break-up
  • Learn new emotion management skills
  • Define or re-define your boundaries
  • Replace ineffective and/or painful ways of relating with healthier more effective here-and-now ways of relating
  • Learn to implement strategy that supports personal growth and wellness

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Quotes From A.J. Mahari


"Each one of us is born alone. Born to be the very unique human being that he/she is. Each one of us will die alone. In between, in the natural order of life, there are times when we must be alone due to circumstance or times when we may need to be alone to take care of ourselves and find our own way through troubled and painful seasons. Being alone is not necessarily the reason for feeling the pain of loneliness."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "Loneliness - Its Promise of Transformation"

"The collective experiences compiling in the very young infant are forming an internal representation of the world. The core wound of abandonment results in the destruction of the emerging authentic self. It destroys the very essence of the developing self. Emotional growth and development are arrested as the result of failure to master early childhood developmental phases."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "The Legacy of Abandonment in BPD"

"Why is it that we allow so much pain and chaos to be a part of how we define love? What is it that we still need to learn so that we can free ourselves from the burden and the pain of investing in rescuing a borderline? What is it that you still need more awareness about? What are the lessons?"

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "Full Circle - Lessons For Non Borderlines"